Hey guys! Are trying to figure out how to be more romantic to your woman? Here I have 3 tips on how to effectively romance your lover!
1. Discover Her Love Language
There are said to be 5 ways that people can express love to their significant other. The 5 languages are words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. Check out this link to learn more about the love languages:
Just think back to all the nice things that you’ve done for your lady throughout your relationship. Try to remember the things/gestures she was most excited about and see which closely matches her love language.
If you treated her to flowers in the past and she was completely overjoyed, her love language may be receiving gifts. If her eyes light up when you’ve given her compliments on how beautiful she looks or how great she is with the kids, her love language may be words of affirmation.
If you are still stumped, take this quiz to discover your spouses love language:
Once you’ve discovered how she likes to receive love, you can properly cater to that love language. Here are some ideas on how to romance your special lady based on her love language.
-write her a poem
-tell her that you love her, that she’s beautiful, and that you appreciate her
-leave love notes for her around the house
-Send a text or email expressing how much you love her
-plan a romantic weekend getaway
-plan a fun day of events that you both will enjoy together
-take a fun class together
-take a roadtrip
-include date night into your monthly routine
-subscribe her to a magazine that correlates with her hobbies such as gardening, cooking, decorating,etc.
-give her a gift on an unusual holiday
-give her a gift basket with all her favorite things
-take over one of the chores that she normally takes care of around the house; this could be getting the kids ready for school, doing the laundry,etc.
-pack her favorite things for lunch to take into work
-offer to help her if you see her flustered about something
-hold her hand
-give her a neck, back, foot, or full body massage with lotions or warming oils
-make it your duty to kiss her often
-go out dancing
If you hear your woman constantly commenting on an issue that she’s been dealing with, pay close attention. Maybe she wants to start getting into yoga, wants more downtime, etc. If you’re able to buy her a pack of yoga classes or take the kids out for the day so she can enjoy some alone time, she will appreciate these gestures. This will let her know that you were paying attention to the small things!
If your spouse does majority of the cooking, offering a helping hand in the kitchen would make her heart melt, especially if you dislike cooking in the first place! You could cook with her, come home early one day and already have dinner prepped and ready to be served for the family, or you could set up a romantic dinner just for the two of you. If you are the one that does most or share cooking responsibilities, cook one of her favorite meals that you’ll know she’ll enjoy!
By doing these things, she will see that you made an effort to give your time in helping her with something that she normally does on her own!
If you want to romance your lover on a regular basis, make these gestures become a daily, weekly, and/or monthly habit.
By doing these things for her, you are investing into the relationship, which in turn should make your bond closer and your relationship stronger! Once this becomes part of your normal routine, you will be pleasantly surprised that she will be glad to return the favor! Remember that 😉
I hope these tips were helpful and gave you some good ideas on how to romance your woman! Good luck! 😊