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3 Tips For Men Who Want To Be More Romantic! Details Inside!

Hey guys! Are trying to figure out how to be more romantic to your woman? Here I have 3 tips on how to effectively romance your lover!

1. Discover Her Love Language

There are said to be 5 ways that people can express love to their significant other. The 5 languages are words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. Check out this link to learn more about the love languages:
Just think back to all the nice things that you’ve done for your lady throughout your relationship. Try to remember the things/gestures she was most excited about and see which closely matches her love language.
If you treated her to flowers in the past and she was completely overjoyed, her love language may be receiving gifts. If her eyes light up when you’ve given her compliments on how beautiful she looks or how great she is with the kids, her love language may be words of affirmation.
If you are still stumped, take this quiz to discover your spouses love language:
Once you’ve discovered how she likes to receive love, you can properly cater to that love language. Here are some ideas on how to romance your special lady based on her love language.

•Words Of Affirmation

-write her a poem
-tell her that you love her, that she’s beautiful, and that you appreciate her
-leave love notes for her around the house
-Send a text or email expressing how much you love her

•Quality Time

-plan a romantic weekend getaway
-plan a fun day of events that you both will enjoy together
-take a fun class together
-take a roadtrip
-include date night into your monthly routine

•Receiving Gifts

-subscribe her to a magazine that correlates with her hobbies such as gardening, cooking, decorating,etc.
-give her a gift on an unusual holiday
-give her a gift basket with all her favorite things

•Acts Of Service

-take over one of the chores that she normally takes care of around the house; this could be getting the kids ready for school, doing the laundry,etc.
-pack her favorite things for lunch to take into work
-offer to help her if you see her flustered about something

•Physical Touch

-hold her hand
-cuddle together
-give her a neck, back, foot, or full body massage with lotions or warming oils
-make it your duty to kiss her often
-go out dancing

2. The Little Things

If you hear your woman constantly commenting on an issue that she’s been dealing with, pay close attention. Maybe she wants to start getting into yoga, wants more downtime, etc. If you’re able to buy her a pack of yoga classes or take the kids out for the day so she can enjoy some alone time, she will appreciate these gestures. This will let her know that you were paying attention to the small things!

3. Cook Together

If your spouse does majority of the cooking, offering a helping hand in the kitchen would make her heart melt, especially if you dislike cooking in the first place! You could cook with her, come home early one day and already have dinner prepped and ready to be served for the family, or you could set up a romantic dinner just for the two of you. If you are the one that does most or share cooking responsibilities, cook one of her favorite meals that you’ll know she’ll enjoy!
By doing these things, she will see that you made an effort to give your time in helping her with something that she normally does on her own!
If you want to romance your lover on a regular basis, make these gestures become a daily, weekly, and/or monthly habit.
By doing these things for her, you are investing into the relationship, which in turn should make your bond closer and your relationship stronger! Once this becomes part of your normal routine, you will be pleasantly surprised that she will be glad to return the favor! Remember that 😉
I hope these tips were helpful and gave you some good ideas on how to romance your woman! Good luck! 😊

The Truth About Relationships

This Sunday, I went to church service and the topic was about Relationships. There was something he said that stood out to me…

The speaker said, “Every relationship around you should reflect where you’re going, not where you came from.”

If you are trying to make something of yourself, but everyone surrounding you is either discouraging you from doing it or are not making an effort to better themselves, maybe it’s time to re-evaluate. Think about changing who you decide to spend most of your time with because they are probably going to end up delaying your progress. (Birds of a feather flock together!)

This doesn’t mean to get rid of your friends, you just should start looking for new connections. People who can also help guide you in the direction where you’re trying to go. 

For example, if you’ve always wanted to start your own Real Estate company, you would do the research to get there of course, then you would start trying to connect with people who are in this type of business.

To find these people, you can ask around to find out if anyone would have information about going into real estate. 

Another option is to maybe join some type of real estate club or organization in your area. Once you find these people, let them know what you’re trying to do and they will give you the information you need, maybe more. 

There’s nothing like hearing the information directly from the mouth of someone who has “been there, done that” along with little tips that you can’t find on the internet or by reading a book. 

If you start changing up your circle and filling it with those who have similar goals as you, you will most likely start to notice  progression with your goals. 

What do you think about this? Did you change up your friend circle and see different results? Let me know by commenting below!  

Sunday after church. It was a beautiful day with abundant sunshine! =)

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